Right now if someone sends me anything they show up on my news tab - presumably alertable, possibly not. A while back, I recall someone I recently traded with asking to be missiled (since he had accidentally calming amp'd himself). At the time I didn't think anything of it, but now I realize how much it could be abused.

I did this by de-friending him and then I could take actions against him, in this case missiling him. This seems to be something that is abusable though, and so I was thinking that this should be changed.